If you want to be completely equal, be completely equal. But don't demand special treatment afterwards. Because once you get special treatment, you're no longer equal.
Know what you're asking for when you ask for equality.
Women always want to be treated equally...do you even KNOW what you're asking? They like to twist the meaning and words around to make it say and mean what they want. The truth always comes out, however...that's why there's always controversy and confusion. Because people don't want to face the truth. So they trap themselves in their own bubble spewing crap like "reality is perceptive."
No. Reality is reality. You not CHOOSING to see it doesn't stop it from being there.
The reality of "equality" is: No give or take. You are exactly like me. We are at the same level.
Men will not treat you like "Princesses" or "Queens" when HELLO! YOU'RE EQUAL TO THEM! Meaning you're JUST as much as a PAUPER as they are! Or even worse: YOU'RE ANOTHER KING. Yes, sounds empowering doesn't it? Well not unless you love being single! YOU ARE NOT A MAN. So stop TRYING to be one!
We as women have qualities to match the man. When a man looks at you he should see the soft, gentle, inwardly strong, encouraging, emotionally and spiritually stong, mental prowess, determined, warm and loving, classy and beautiful, nurturing, feminine side of God.
Physical power (but not to OVERpower), brute strength, a tactical mind, scrutiny, strictness, driveness, provision, watchfulness, faithfulness, emotional levelness, a protective spirit -- these are the masculine traits of God that are more prominent in MEN for a REASON. Together we're the likeness of the Divine as an entire entity. Which is why when we bond with each other our spirits become one.
We're made in His like-ness, BOTH of us. We have different sides and characteristics of the Almighty that are meant to be more prominent in one than the other; that's why we fit together so perfectly when we find our God-given match.
You say there are no good men out there...there are no men who truly know how to be a man...well how CAN they if YOU are always trying to be the man!
Be a strong empowered woman but don't go overboard. It's not bad to be strong and independent. You have to take care of yourself before anyone else. But don't lose your natural strength trying to become something you were never created to be. Become a strong Woman. Not a Man.
Ask to be treated like a respectful Woman. Because when you ask for that, its MUCH more fulfilling and natural than to be treated "equally."
Adam never demeaned, down-talked, or disrespected Eve in any way. See how he treats her in the Bible. That's true respect, trust, love, and relationship between a man and a woman. Just look at sucessful marriages or couples that you know are meant to be or are always going to last. You know the MAN and you know the WOMAN, and it's kinda sad if that gets skewed because the woman wanted to be sooo much of a man that the man can't even be a real man....
So Ladies, aim to be a strong, intelligent Woman of God who created you... and ask to be respected and treated as such.
Be careful of what you ask for...that goes for everyone.
Love and Peace
~Machang Sanga~
No comments:
Post a Comment